前回、マッチングアプリで出会った長谷川さんとのデートが素晴らしかったが、価値観の違いに気付く。友人に相談し、付き合うには悩みがあると感じる。友人は付き合っていけば変わる可能性もあると言うが、別れる可能性もあることを気にする。長谷川さんは良い人だがケチなところが気になる。友人の意見を参考にしながら、自分で決断していく覚悟を決める。次のステップに進むために自分の気持ちを整理し始める。
Continuing from last time. Mr. Hasegawa, whom I met on a dating app, is exactly my type of person. Furthermore, after going on a date with him, I realized that he is not only good-looking but also a wonderful man on the inside. It was the first time someone taught me the names of birds and fish during a park date, and I was deeply moved. Just when I was thinking “I want to continue this relationship,” I noticed a difference in values between me and Mr. Hasegawa. To my eyes, Hasegawa was a “stingy” person… so I decided to consult with a friend while complaining about it.
Your friend’s observation seems to be very accurate. What starts as a small gap can turn into an unfillable huge void later on. No matter how compatible two people are, there are always small differences that can lead to separation, and if you can see it from the beginning… I think that’s natural.
My friends said, “You’re not in a relationship yet, right? Once you start dating, feelings change, and you establish norms and rules, making it more enjoyable.” The question “Will something happen?” left an impression on me.
Thanks to them, I was able to move forward. For now, I will carefully consider what I want to do with Mr. Hasegawa in the future.
Mr. Hasegawa is a great person, but his stinginess is his only flaw. I was worried about what to do with our relationship in the future. Since I couldn’t come to a conclusion on my own, I decided to consult two friends. They gave me completely opposite opinions, but I was able to understand and accept both. However, as both of them also mentioned, the decision is mine. I want to take their opinions into account and answer firmly.
To be continued in [Part 2].
Original article: Mama Star Community Script: motte Illustration: Pongo Editing: Mika Yokouchi